Secrets Hideaway™ Blog
(Page 1 of 3)Self Care, Self Love
Posted: August 5th 2021
“Self-care is giving the world the best of you, instead of what’s left of you” – Katie Reed It is easy to get so caught up in the beautiful chaos of life – the day-to-day grind, the planning for trips – the...
Waking up the sexual side
Posted: June 23rd 2021
“What every man wants is a lady by day and a sexual Goddess by night”- Unknown Life takes us on a different path and there are times we lose the confidence we once had in who we are sexually. We stop taking the chances of exploring...
In Honor of Memorial Day
Posted: May 17th 2021
“As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter the words, but to live by them” – John F...
Secrets Series - Part Two Unicorns in the Lifestyle
Posted: April 26th 2021
"Be Carefree, Not Careless" - Unknown I am seeing a great deal of posts regarding "Unicorns" and ff you are a part of our Secrets FB group page, you will see a post from one of our unicorn members that addresses the idea of what a unicorn...
Secrets Series - Part One Single Males & Social Media
Posted: April 12th 2021
Holly Wood’s Talk Time for Single Men…. Part One “Well ladies here I am, what are your other two wishes?” For the love of everything inside of me – Listen up single men…. LISTEN UP… I see some posts...
“I don’t have a dirty mind, I have a sexy imaginati
Posted: March 8th 2021
Have you ever heard a song that makes your hips move or a sexy memory that floods your mind and takes you to a place of just wanting to have sex? Not like the hey let’s have sex, but they rip your clothes off and throw you across the room...
Lusty Lover's Day
Posted: February 11th 2021
"Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul and I'm yours forever."- Anonymous With Valentines fast approaching do you know what your partner wants? Is it a wild night of sex with a group? A kinky night with cuffs, whips and...
Ladies Let's Talk About Sex...
Posted: January 4th 2021
"My sexuality is not an inferior trait that needs to be chaperoned by emotionalism or morality" – Alice Bag. As far as we have come, we still have a long way to go. There is this stigma still with women regarding sexuality...
“Sexuality is one of the biggest parts of who we are
Posted: December 22nd 2020
There is nothing sexier than a man who can claim his dominance and confidence than one who can reach out and embrace his own sexual fantasies and desires without shame. We are labeled in society from the time we are born – whether we are...
"Sexual Desire is a State not unlike hunger" - Mary R
Posted: November 19th 2020
Coming into a different phase in your life; whether it be as a single exploring your sexuality or in a relationship enhancing the sexual experiences, we all face a desire that can be neglected or intimidated to really open up about a kink we may...
Dating Apps - Tips and Recommendations
Posted: October 2nd 2020
That moment you and your partner are ready to take the plunge and throw yourself out there to the world of introducing new couples, fantasies, and maybe a hot stud into the bedroom – where do you go? What do you say? Will anyone, figure out...
Your Sexual Journey To BDSM
Posted: September 14th 2020
“There is a very fine line between pleasure and pain. They are two sides of the same coin, one not existing without the other.” – E.L James Remember when 50...
“To give enjoyable head, enjoy giving head” – Asa
Posted: September 1st 2020
The art of going down on your man is a sensual, sexy, and fun way to give pleasure. Ladies and gentlemen now is the time to dress your sexiest, position yourself to be comfortable, keep some props close by, grab a mirror to set behind you or next...
Good Boys Like A Bad Girl.....
Posted: August 21st 2020
“I feel your arms sneaking up behind me, caressing my backside – your kiss plunging into the side of my neck while you lay me down – your body is pressed against my back - I yearn for your touch. You whisper in my ear you belong...
The Big "C"
Posted: July 29th 2020
New or polished in the lifestyle, communication is critical. It is safe to say that we were all new to being in the lifestyle at one point. Do you ever sit back and think about how you approached the conversation? Hey, love of my life, let us...
PSA!! Please read entire message.
Posted: June 26th 2020
"A problem is a chance for you to do your best." - Duke Ellington In response to the emergency order that has been put in place for the state of Florida, we wanted to give our guests an update on how this will effect Secrets. According to the...
Club Swinkster: Goddess Ellez and Sir Tank
Posted: May 22nd 2020
One of the greatest things we offer here at Secrets is the ability to be Sex Positive and offer a chance to explore and embrace sexuality. Our newest addition to the Secrets family is our Club Swinkster, with Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez. We want to...
Resort Update 3/24/20
Posted: March 24th 2020
To our valued Guests, Resort update 3/24/20: Secrets Hideaway appreciates your patience during this unprecedented situation. We are working closely with local government and abiding by all CDC guidelines. The resort remains open for...
Swinger Essentials: Your Go-Bag
Posted: February 6th 2020
Swinger Essentials: Your Go-Bag One of the first “tricks” I learned in the Lifestyle was always be prepared - with lube & condoms! There is no bigger mood killer than getting to the juicy part… only to realize that...
Swinger Burnout
Posted: January 16th 2020
Swinger Burnout: What it is, How to Recognize it, And How to Treat it. When you are first discussing a non-monogamous Lifestyle, your questions probably focus around how to handle the initial conversation with your partner, how to go about...
How We Discovered the Lifestyle
Posted: December 5th 2019
How We Discovered the Lifestyle : My parents are in the military and I thought we had a pretty open relationship with them. There weren’t many secrets, or at least I thought. They loved traveling (no big deal...
Chronicles of a Unicorn - How NOT to Get Laid
Posted: November 21st 2019
How Not To Get Laid: Lesson 1 Actual text message: “No worries maybe you’d send me a. pictyre of your cute ass here then lol ;)” WHOA! Watch out! My panties just hit the floor! My pussy just got so wet, my...
Chronicles of a Unicorn - Good Girl
Posted: November 12th 2019
If you don’t already know what a “unicorn” is, according to Urban Dictionary, a unicorn is a “common swinging term used in the community to refer to a single female interested in meeting other...
Jealousy, Neglect and Betrayal
Posted: November 4th 2019
Jealousy, Neglect and Betrayal Psychologists say that "anger is not an emotion". It is a self-defense mechanism that masks other emotions (usually fear or sadness). Jealousy Neglect and Betrayal due to their ability to cause similar fear...
Lifestyle Etiquette 101: 3 Tips for Social Media
Posted: October 23rd 2019
Lifestyle Etiquette 101: 3 Tips for Fabulous Social Media Interactions While I am not an expert on etiquette, I do pride myself on being polite and reading social cues. Additionally, as an LS blogger / social media presence, I have the...
Lifestyle Etiquette 101: What to Expect
Posted: October 23rd 2019
Lifestyle Etiquette 101: What to expect when you don’t know what to expect. Heightened senses, heart racing, warm heat flushes over you… new experiences can be very stimulating! But they can also be intimating. No one wants to say...
Dungeon Scene
Posted: October 2nd 2019
pet: Sir, can you tell me about the scenes you had last night at the Dungeon? Sir: She and I did two. The first, I had her choose toys from my toy bag, to do impact play. I tied her to a cross on the wall by her wrists, so standing with her...
Finally Friday .... and ready to play!
Posted: September 26th 2019
It’s Friday afternoon, I rush home from work to wash my hair and finish packing. I feel the stress start to melt down the tub drain. I pour a glass of wine. My husband walks in from work, we rush to pack the car and attend to last minutes...
Enjoying the Stranger
Posted: September 26th 2019
She watched him walk across the bar, the bulge in his jeans as undeniable as his deep brown eyes. He casually leaned against the pool table and took a long swig of his beer, before casting a slow smile in her direction. She immediately felt the...
My First Airtight Experience
Posted: September 14th 2019
So I lost my anal virginity almost one year ago on Easter Sunday. It was at home with my amazing fiance with plenty of numbing cream and after many many vaginal orgasms. I was always one of “those girls” who would...
Why the Lifestyle Works for Our Marriage
Posted: September 5th 2019
My husband, Joshua, and I met at a Lifestyle party, so for us it has never been an issue that we needed to address. It just kind of is. I have always been “adventurous” and a bit of a nudist, but I wasn’t aware of the...
Have you ever dreamed of owning your own Swing Club?
Posted: May 28th 2019
Have you ever dreamed of owning your own Swing Club? They Said It Couldn't Be Done... So We Did It Anyway! Well now is your chance to be partners in the fastest growing Swingers Resort in the world and the ONLY...
HALLOWSWING IX AT SECRETS HIDEAWAY IS HERE!!!
Posted: October 24th 2018
HallowSwing IX IS FINALLY HERE!!!!! Wednesday Night: $35 Monster Mash All U Can Drink Wednesday Thursday Night: $25 Thriller Thursday Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime Pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Sexy Leather &...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... It's an Aahz Party We
Posted: October 17th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... October 17-21. Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Save the TaTa's Pink Party - Hosted by...
HAPPY 8th ANNIVERSARY Secrets Hideaway!!!
Posted: September 25th 2018
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa!!! Join us this week as we celebrate 8 sexy & fun-filled years!!! Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20...
The Craziers Unleash themselves this week at Secrets Hi
Posted: September 19th 2018
The Craziers "Unleash themselves" this week at Secrets Hideaway!!! Let's all welcome them... Secrets Style!!! Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Day: $20 Daytime Pool PartyThursday Night: $50 High Socks &...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... September 12-16
Posted: September 12th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Boot Camp Booty - Sexy CamoSaturday Day: $20 Daytime...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... September 5-9
Posted: September 5th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Dark Nights Dungeon Friday Hosted by Paradise Social...
SWINGERS GONE WILD 2018 TAKEOVER IS HERE!!!!
Posted: August 29th 2018
Swingers Gone Wild Takeover 2018 is HERE!!!!! Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Beach PartySaturday Day: $20 Daytime Pool...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... August 22-26
Posted: August 22nd 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... August 22-26 Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Pasties & PantiesSaturday Day: $20...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... August 15-19... It's
Posted: August 15th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Sexy NetSaturday Day: $20 Daytime Pool PartySaturday...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... August 8-12
Posted: August 8th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Thongs & BoxersSaturday Day: $20 Daytime Pool...
Thus week at Secrets Hideaway... August 1-5
Posted: August 1st 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Dark Nights Dungeon Friday Hosted by Paradise Social...
It's the Friends with Benefits Weekend!!!
Posted: July 25th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... It's the Friends with Benefits Weekend Hosted by Aahz Party Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... July 11-15
Posted: July 11th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke Night Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Hicks & ChicksSaturday Day: $20 Daytime Pool...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... July 4-8
Posted: July 4th 2018
Wednesday Day: $20 Daytime Pool Party Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Night - Happy Birthday America!!!!Thursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Dark Nights Dungeon Friday hosted by...
It's Big Bang Takeover 2018 at Secrets Hideaway
Posted: June 27th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway...It's Big Bang Takeover 2018!!!! Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink NightThursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie NightFriday Day: $20 Daytime pool PartyFriday Night: $30 Beach Party with Surf SimulatorSaturday...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... SummerSwing 2018 with
Posted: June 20th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway...It's SummerSwing 2018 with TSV!!!! Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink NightThursday Day: $20 Tiny Bikini Pool PartyThursday Night: $25 Fetish & Fishnet BallFriday Day: $20 Sexy Nauti Pool PartyFriday Night...
This week at Secrets Hideaway... June 13-17 - Aahz Part
Posted: June 13th 2018
This week at Secrets Hideaway... Wednesday Night: $35 All U Can Drink Karaoke NightThursday Night: $25 Meet & Greet Newbie Night with MotoBunny Demonstration by Fairvilla Sexy ThingsFriday Day: $20 Friday Daytime Pool PartyFriday Night: $30...
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