The Going Place

Established 2016

About TGP

Welcome to The Going Place.  We are East Carolina’s hottest, newest, and fastest growing lifestyle venue and the Area’s Only On-Premise Members Only Lifestyle Club. 

Party Nights we are open from 9pm until 2am.

The entire club has expanded and upgraded.  7500 square feet of fun!!!!! In addition to the new HUGE dance floor and social area, we offer a canteen with complimentary water, soda, and hor d’oevres.  The Going Place also features a sitting room for new guests that leads to the TGP play area featuring: The Body Shop (Orgy room), Swing n Swap (Swing Room), Ice Breaker Alcove (Intimate Chat Area), Ally Falls (Sybian Room), Pandora’s Box (Grecian Theme Room), Shagadelic Love Inn (60’s theme room), The Kinky Flamingo (Flamingo themed room with bed restraints), Doc in the Box (Exam room), The Wild Side (Safari Themed Room), Terry’s Choke and Stroke (Glory Hole), Heathen’s Playground (TGP’s Dungeon), Sex on the beach (beach themed). 

Saturday nights we have themed swingers parties.  Themes are only suggestions and never required.  Swingers parties are open to couples and single ladies.  Single male attendance is limited on these nights unless otherwise stated.  SINGLE MEN WILL NOT BE ADMITTED WITHOUT BEING PREREGISTERED AND MUST ATTEND WITH AND BE SPONSORED BY A COUPLE OF SINGLE FEMALE., NO EXCEPTIONS.  Single men must leave when their sponsor leaves.  Limit of 5 single males per party.  If a party permits unaccompanied single men, it will be specifically stated. 

Lockers are available, please check with the front desk. 

While you’re here enjoy complimentary hors d oeuvres, water, soda and ice.  We have coolers for your beer and wine.  Coolers, bottles, and bags must be labeled with your full first and last name and must leave with you when you go.  No liquor is allowed.  Bags and coolers are subject to be searched.

Contact Information




Wilmington, NC

On Premise


Sunday: CLOSED

Monday: CLOSED

Tuesday: CLOSED

Wednesday: CLOSED

Thursday: CLOSED

Friday: 9pm - 2am

Saturday: 9pm -2am