Frequently Asked Questions
Can couples spend the night?
Absolutely! This is what sets us apart from all the other Lifestyle Clubs that do not permit overnight Lodging. We have our own hotel on site, so that you do not have to drive after a night of partying, and can take the fun back to your room after hours. We are also close to the Orlando Theme Parks for out of town visitors who are vacationing here. Our hotel is directly behind the club, so it is also easy access for the ladies who are dressing up into sexy theme night outfits. We have just undergone a massive renovation and most of our rooms are now completed. The hotel rooms are very inexpensive, so book yours today!
Can women dance with each other?
This club was designed for women and couples in mind. As always, it is important to be respectful and ask first before touching anyone. We hope that we have created an environment where everyone feels comfortable enough to express themselves in a healthy way.
Do we have to participate in the club activities?
No, of course not. Many people come to just watch all the fun. No one at the Club is pressured to do anything except have fun. All the activities, games, music, entertainment, jacuzzi, soft lighting, great food, comfortable surroundings are for one purpose. To allow people to have a lot of fun with absolutely "No Pressure". If you want to join in some of the activities, great, but our members are at the Club to have FUN. Enjoy the Club at your own terms.
How do I login?
Login using the email address and password created during your account sign up. If you forgot your password you can request a new one via the forgot password link.
Is a membership required?
Secrets Hideaway/Club Secret is a private Resort and requires that everyone be a member. You must be 21 years of age to become a member. Applications are processed on premise, online and by fax. Once you have completed your application you will receive your membership number/card. Make sure you bring your membership number/card and your valid photo ID (Driver's License) to the Resort. Our staff will quickly process the application and will request your signature in person, at the Resort. It takes just a couple of minutes on your first visit. If your application is approved then you will be allowed to join the Resort.
Should everyone swing?
Swinging is not for everyone. Often times the ladies will complain that their partner is too pushy and impatient and pressuring them to do things that they are not yet comfortable doing. We suggest that the first time you visit the Club just relax and enjoy some of the recreational activities and watch some of the members. After you leave the Club talk to your partner and share your feelings. We're sure that you will feel just like we did when we were first introduced to the fabulous freedom we experience at the Club. Familiarizing yourself with this new found lifestyle is a process and giving your partner the freedom to explore the lifestyle at their own pace will be rewarding beyond your wildest dreams.
What can I expect once I become a member?
Once your membership is approved at the Secrets Hideaway/Club Secret and you pay the party fee at the door, one of our Hosts will take you on a tour of the facility and explain some simple rules and answer any questions you may have. If you have never visited our Resort you may have a very different idea of what you can expect than what actually takes place. The atmosphere is much like any of your favorite nightclub hangouts. The only difference is that you have the ability to explore aspects of yourself and/or your partner or other members of the Resort that you have never focused on. We have a Nightclub with state of the art light and sound system, stage, VIP bottle seating. The resort also offers themed playrooms, group play areas, dungeon area, 2 Pool bars, 2 pools, 2 spa/hot tubs, pool side cabanas, fitness center, and dinner buffet. The Resort is designed for you to have fun and pleasure. If at any time you need assistance or have questions, a staff member will be more than happy to help you. We want you to be completely at ease, having fun and enjoying the many activities at the Resort. There's lots to do: dance, eat, mingle with other, talk, socialize at the bar, listen to your favorite music, stroll thru the Club or sit and relax at the pool decks.
What if we have a little too much to drink?
Get a room! We offer discounted hotel rooms to all of our members. The Club's Policy if a Bartender determines that you have had too much to drink, they will stop serving you alcohol. The Club Policy is to refrain from drinking and driving. We encourage everyone to get a room. It's cheaper than a DUI.
What if we meet an acquaintance?
It may happen and if it does trust your instincts, the club is big enough for everyone. To be a member you must respect all others in the club and you may find that you like getting to know the acquaintance a whole lot better.
What is ''the lifestyle''?
There are several types of swinging or "lifestyles" as most veterans call it. Swinging, as defined by Patti Thomas in Recreational Sex is "as an alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who feel that sexual non-monogamy between committed partners greatly enhances their relationship, allowing them to openly experience social, recreational sex with a number of partners, most often on a 'couple-to couple' basis." This does not mean, of course, that singles are not actively involved in the swinging lifestyle because they are a very important member of the lifestyle.
Open swinging usually involves 2-3 couples or singles partying together and is very enjoyable for people who enjoy watching their mates with others. Closed swinging is when two couples exchange partners in different rooms or settings. Group swinging is just what it says, groups of couples and singles and is most enjoyable for those who enjoy exhibitionism and voyeurism all at the same time. All of the above may occur at a house party, a couple-to-couple encounter or at a club and these parties can be "on-premise" or "off-premise." An off-premise party allows for social interaction and mingling and usually arrangements are made to go elsewhere to pursue further activities. The parties at the Club are on-premises and allow members to enjoy the lifestyle in a safe, secure and clean environment.
What is the dress code for the club?
Most men wear dress slacks, dress or pressed sports shirt. Dress Jackets are preferred but not mandatory. Men dress to impress. No Torn clothing, baseball caps and tennis shoes are permitted. Remember, "Cleanliness is next to Godliness". Ladies come dressed in sexy, sensuous outfits that you can share with your partner privately or with the rest of the club members. We will have themed events and you will be surprised at how fun role-playing can be for you and your partner. So try it once, you may be pleasantly surprised. Club Secret does allow jeans on most nights with the exception of New Years and the Black White; however it's always important to Dress to Impress.
What sort of people come to the club?
YOU MUST BE 21 YEARS OF AGE OR OLDER!
Our members tend to be upscale, mature, fun loving, open-minded and curious. But most importantly, our members are our best assets and we want members of the club who are fun-loving and respectful of others. Membership is non-discriminating as to color, creed, social class, education or income.
What's the average age?
There really is no average age per se, members' ages range from the late 20's to the late 40's. We encourage members of all ages to participate and enjoy the club.
Why do you want me to bring my valid driver's license, State ID or Passport?
Club Secret has a responsibility to provide a fun, safe environment for all members. We want to be absolutely sure each person entering the club is:
1. Who they say they are 2. Over 21 years of age We require a personal interview with each member before approving their application to ensure they understand the rules and also so they know what to expect. Our careful screening process ensures our members have a safe, fun time. We will not release your personal information to anyone without your express permission unless required to do so by law.
Why swing if you are single?
For single females, the sky is the limit. You have the opportunity for "the best of both worlds" and probably more single females would enjoy swinging if they were better exposed to it. For the single man, in order to be a success, you will need to be patient and easy-going. Socialize with the other members and remember that it is important to be warm, considerate, sensual and fun to be with.