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Lusty Lover's Day

Posted Date: February 11th, 2021

Lusty Lover's Day

"Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul and I'm yours forever."- Anonymous  With Valentines fast approaching do you know what your partner wants? Is it a wild night of sex with...

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Ladies Let's Talk About Sex...

Posted Date: January 4th, 2021

Ladies Let's Talk About Sex...

"My sexuality is not an inferior trait that needs to be chaperoned by emotionalism or morality" – Alice Bag. As far as we have come, we still have a long way to go. There is this stigma still...

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Dating Apps - Tips and Recommendations

Posted Date: October 2nd, 2020

Dating Apps - Tips and Recommendations

That moment you and your partner are ready to take the plunge and throw yourself out there to the world of introducing new couples, fantasies, and maybe a hot stud into the bedroom – where do...

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Your Sexual Journey To BDSM

Posted Date: September 14th, 2020

Your Sexual Journey To BDSM

“There is a very fine line between pleasure and pain. They are two sides of the same coin, one not existing without the other.” – E.L James Remember when 50 Shades of Grey first...

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To give enjoyable head, enjoy giving head

Posted Date: September 1st, 2020

To give enjoyable head, enjoy giving head

The art of going down on your man is a sensual, sexy, and fun way to give pleasure. Ladies and gentlemen now is the time to dress your sexiest, position yourself to be comfortable, keep some props...

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Good Boys Like A Bad Girl.....

Posted Date: August 21st, 2020

Good Boys Like A Bad Girl.....

“I feel your arms sneaking up behind me, caressing my backside – your kiss plunging into the side of my neck while you lay me down – your body is pressed against my back - I yearn...

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The Big "C"

Posted Date: July 29th, 2020

The Big "C"

New or polished in the lifestyle, communication is critical. It is safe to say that we were all new to being in the lifestyle at one point. Do you ever sit back and think about how you approached...

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PSA!! Please read entire message.

Posted Date: June 26th, 2020

PSA!! Please read entire message.

"A problem is a chance for you to do your best." - Duke Ellington In response to the emergency order that has been put in place for the state of Florida, we wanted to give our guests an update on...

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Club Swinkster: Goddess Ellez and Sir Tank

Posted Date: May 22nd, 2020

Club Swinkster: Goddess Ellez and Sir Tank

One of the greatest things we offer here at Secrets is the ability to be Sex Positive and offer a chance to explore and embrace sexuality. Our newest addition to the Secrets family is our Club...

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Resort Update 3/24/20

Posted Date: March 24th, 2020

Resort Update 3/24/20

To our valued Guests, Resort update 3/24/20: Secrets Hideaway appreciates your patience during this unprecedented situation. We are working closely with local government and abiding by all CDC...

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Swinger Essentials: Your Go-Bag

Posted Date: February 6th, 2020

Swinger Essentials: Your Go-Bag

One of the first “tricks” I learned in the Lifestyle was always be prepared - with lube & condoms! There is no bigger mood killer than getting to the juicy part… only to...

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Swinger Burnout

Posted Date: January 16th, 2020

Swinger Burnout

Swinger Burnout: What it is, How to Recognize it, And How to Treat it.  When you are first discussing a non-monogamous Lifestyle, your questions probably focus around how to handle the initial...

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How We Discovered the Lifestyle

Posted Date: December 5th, 2019

How We Discovered the Lifestyle

How We Discovered the Lifestyle : My parents are in the military and I thought we had a pretty open relationship with them. There weren’t many secrets, or at least I...

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Chronicles of a Unicorn - Good Girl

Posted Date: November 12th, 2019

Chronicles of a Unicorn - Good Girl

If you don’t already know what a “unicorn” is, according to Urban Dictionary, a unicorn is a “common swinging term used in the community to refer to a single female...

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Jealousy, Neglect and Betrayal

Posted Date: November 4th, 2019

Jealousy, Neglect and Betrayal

Jealousy, Neglect and Betrayal Psychologists say that "anger is not an emotion".  It is a self-defense mechanism that masks other emotions (usually fear or sadness). Jealousy Neglect and...

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Dungeon Scene

Posted Date: October 2nd, 2019

Dungeon Scene

pet: Sir, can you tell me about the scenes you had last night at the Dungeon? Sir: She and I did two. The first, I had her choose toys from my toy bag, to do impact play. I tied her to a cross on...

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Lifestyle Etiquette 101: What to Expect

Posted Date: October 23rd, 2019

Lifestyle Etiquette 101: What to Expect

Lifestyle Etiquette 101: What to expect when you don’t know what to expect. Heightened senses, heart racing, warm heat flushes over you… new experiences can be very stimulating! But...

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My First Airtight Experience

Posted Date: September 14th, 2019

My First Airtight Experience

So I lost my anal virginity almost one year ago on Easter Sunday. It was at home with my amazing fiance with plenty of numbing cream and after many many vaginal orgasms. I was always one of...

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Why the Lifestyle Works for Our Marriage

Posted Date: September 5th, 2019

Why the Lifestyle Works for Our Marriage

My husband, Joshua, and I met at a Lifestyle party, so for us it has never been an issue that we needed to address. It just kind of is.  I have always been “adventurous” and a bit...

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Enjoying the Stranger

Posted Date: September 26th, 2019

Enjoying the Stranger

She watched him walk across the bar, the bulge in his jeans as undeniable as his deep brown eyes. He casually leaned against the pool table and took a long swig of his beer, before casting a slow...

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Finally Friday .... and ready to play!

Posted Date: September 26th, 2019

Finally Friday .... and ready to play!

It’s Friday afternoon, I rush home from work to wash my hair and finish packing. I feel the stress start to melt down the tub drain. I pour a glass of wine. My husband walks in from work, we...

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